Ok I think I figured out that instead of 'localhost' I put my servers address 'db.breezeland.com' so I got THIS far. Now I've entered all the correct information in the required fields but I'm getting the 1045 error like mentioned in the other posts. I figure tsclan will eventually find out his hosts database addrress as I THINK I have but then he will eventually run into the problem that most of us are.. which is… why are we getting the 1045 error… As one user suggested in the 1045 error thread I tried to create my data base with a “@%” at the end of my user name but I got an error saying that I cannont create my data base with a user name like that. It must be alpha numeric meaning no “@%” to create a data base user name. My simple question what do i have to do? I don't see a clear answer. Alot of explaining but no answers. THANKS.
You should check out MySql manual about GRANT and REVOKE syntax and the chapters about security first!
You should ask your ISP to grant access to 'your_user_name'@'%'. '%' means that you can connect from any host. As long as you cannot login to MySql, you cannot create any db.