“Im confused about Access hosts” So am I!
Please study relevant FAQs:
1) http://www.webyog.com/faq/content/23/18/en…on-denied-.html
.. are you sure that direct connection to the server is allowed? if not and if you cannot allow remote access for this user you need to use tunnelling!
2) This
http://www.webyog.com/faq/content/16/66/en…-at-an-isp.html
.. is frequently a problem with shared hosting. But not for you. You get an AUTHENTICATION ERROR (from the MySQL server) – not a CONNECTION error (from the client)